What would u do if ur were in my shoes i really need help plez everyone answer?

Has anyone every been in a relationship in there 20's with a guy that has 2 kids 4 another woman???? and truely been happy. i have been doin good with it. I have been with him off and on 4 8 year and 4 or 5 months he is my frist love i know him be4 he had kids but he never has money 2 buy me anything bc he runs out of money and has 2 spend it on his kid but his job isnt payin him that much or givin him that mean hours and my family doesnt think i should be with him and that i desever better. and they r drivin me crazy about him i dk what 2 do?? i just would like some input. i really do love him.he has time 4 me he lives with me but i dont have a job he only has his kids on the weekends and we r suppose 2 move in together in 2 or 3 weeks